How I Stay Organized – My School and Personal Lives

Hi guys! I’ve missed blogging so so soooo much you have no idea. I even felt kind of guilty for not sticking to my posting schedule for a few weeks but every now and then we have to take a step back and take care of ourselves, mentally, emotionally, and physically, which is exactly what I had to do. Part of taking care of ourselves also has to do with how organized our lives and environments are. Whether it be our rooms, our cars, our workspaces, our schedules, how we handle all of these things affects our levels of stress. So, I’ve decided to show you guys how I stay (or attempt to stay) organized.

I must plan under any circumstance

And no, I don’t mean mentally think out what I’m going to do with my day or week when the time comes. I mean physically write out what needs to get done and what I want to get done. Doing this allows me to actually see what I’m doing and if I’m actually getting things done! Plus, my Lily Pulitzer planner is adorbs so that’s an extra little perk too, right?

I also must clean as I go

I’m going to be completely honest with you guys. I’m a very OCD type of person. I like for things to be a certain way and just organized accordingly. However, I’m also very lazy and all too quickly when I look, my room/car/purse/desk/life is a mess. So before I leave the house, after or while I’m getting dressed, before getting out of the car if I see any mess I must pick it up right then and there so it doesn’t begin  to accumulate.

I schedule in “Personal Days”

Yes, you read that correctly; I schedule in “personal days”. Some of you may ask, “well what about classes?” Yes, I do have classes however, this is why I use the word schedule. Remember those packets of paper stapled together that your professor gave you at the beginning of the semester? What’s it called again? Oh, right a syllabus. Your syllabus is what is going to save you. It has all your assignment dates, test dates, class meeting dates, all ready predetermined. This being said, sometimes life gets a little crazy and you need to take a day to get your priorities back in order and get organized. Before I do this though, I consult the syllabi for all of my classes and then pick a day to take off. This is what I like to call “skipping smart”.

Well guys, this is how I stay organized, I hope this helped in some way with the Spring Semester fast approaching. What are your tips for staying organized?

Until Next Time

2017 Goals

You guys, I’m back in action! Some of my longtime followers may have noticed I took a little bit of a break from blogging and social media for a number of reasons, mainly due to the fact that I needed to take some time for me to figure out what exactly it was I wanted in life and to reassess my priorities because, duh self care is important. 2016 has been a hell of a year for me. With 2017 finally here, I’m ready to get back to the grind, so what better way to start off the year than to document and share my goals for the year.

Financial Goals

  • STOP SPENDING JUST BECAUSE YOU CAN, BAILES!

I admit it. I have a little bit of a shopping problem. Okay, I kinda just straight up lied. I have a big shopping problem. When I feel bad, I shop. When I’m happy, I shop. When I’m bored, I shop. It’s a never ending cycle. This being said, I have to cut it out. Less spending, more saving.

  • Invest

I’ve always believed in investing whether it be in myself or my closet (more so my closet), however, I want to do more than just that. I have friends that are mission minded and have their own creative ideas. Who better to invest in than your friends? We always want to put our money towards products and services provided by people we don’t even know, so why not put our money towards people we actually do know?

Academic Goals

I want a 4.0 for the semester, or no less than a 3.5. No if, ands or buts about it. Yes things do come up, but that’s no excuse for me not to be great. I know that I can pull off a 3.0 with very little effort, but why be lazy?

Career Goals

I currently have an internship working in my city’s Chamber of Commerce in the public relations department, which mainly deals with tourism. I love the work I get to do and the people I have the opportunity to meet, but I want to kind of step out of my comfort zone and explore other areas in the PR field this year.

Personal Goals

  • Make More Time for Me

I have always been the type of person to set aside my wants, for the benefit of others. That stops now. At the end of the day I have to ask myself if I am truly happy and proud of what I’ve accomplished this year, and my life as a whole. If I want that answer to be a resounding ‘yes’, then I have to focus on myself and what my goals are and what I want.

  • Plan Ahead

When it comes to managing myself I have no problem planning ahead, just in case. However, within my church I work with my cousins Brittany and Sierra in our girls ministry, working with girls between the ages of 5 and 16. We take them on outings, have small and large group workshops and discussions, as well as work on other responsibilities we have within the church. However, Brittany went off to college in August and is now in Atlanta for the majority of the year and since then, things gave been a little hectic. I feel like I can do more, I just haven’t truly sat down to plan effectively and work out how exactly I’m going to carry out my plan. This is a major goal of mine for 2017.

Blog Goals

My goals for my blog are really very limited though it’s going to take a lot of work on my part to make it so. I’d like to:

  • Brand myself more effectively
  • Gain a larger following on my social media platforms
  • Create content with more substance than fluff

Overall I feel like my goals are achievable for this year and I hope to make everything I want possible. I’m a firm believer in the phrase, “Stay down until you come up” and that’s exactly what I plan on doing this year because I want 2018 to be my cut up season. What are your goals for 2017? Let me know in the comments, I’d love to read them!

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College Wardrobe Essentials: Prepped For College Series

 

Well ladies July is finally here! Well…it’s almost here, give or take a day. Certain thoughts begin enter your mind. You begin thinking about, and enjoying in advance your new found freedoms and if you’re like me, making mental checklists of things you want and need to do before you go off to college in the fall. I believe that one of those “important” checklists that every girl makes consists of what items she will add to her wardrobe now that she is a college girl. I know from experience that the hardest part of packing for college is deciding which clothes to bring with you now that you are a mature, sophisticated young adult and how exactly you’re going to fit all of these clothes in your dorm room once you’ve made your final selection. It’s stressful, I know but I believe I have the answer to your prayers. I’ve put different pieces together in my personal wardrobe that can be both functional and stylish while conserving space. Here are my tips for creating the perfect functional (and fashionable!) college wardrobe:

Tip #1: Stock Up On The Basics

What I mean by “basics” is actually very simple. Based on what you already own, assess different pieces in your wardrobe about two to three weeks before move in day. Take note of pieces like leggings, solid color scoop necks, v necks, crop tops, cardigans, and tank tops that you have an excess of and pieces you don’t have enough of. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been able to make a different outfit centered around basic white v neck or tank top. I always try to buy lots of my basics from stores like Forever 21 because they’re cheap and if I mess them up, I’m okay with it. After I buy what I like to call my “basic basics”, I invest in higher quality basics. I love buying t-shirts from Ralph Lauren (I live in their v necks), GAP, and J. Crew. The higher quality ones can survive the washing machine without shrinking or fading and tend to last a lot longer than my basic basics. Basics are wardrobe fundamentals that never go out of style and can be used for years to come (plus they’re a life saver when you’re running late for class!).

Tip #2: Invest in a GOOD Pair of Jeans

A good pair of jeans can always save the day. They can be dressed up or dressed down, they can be worn at least two times without being washed, and they are another example of a basic that can be used time and time again yet still give a different vibe to an outfit. Whatever fit floats your boat — skinny, straight, bootcut, or boyfriend– a good pair of jeans is always functional and in style. You may be reading this and asking yourself “Why is she stressing purchasing a good pair of jeans over and over again?” My reason for this is simple. A good pair of jeans will last you longer than just your freshman year of college. These jeans may be on the pricier side but trust me, the investment is well worth it. Don’t get me wrong I have my share of jeans from Forever 21 just like the next girl but compared to jeans I’ve purchased from GAP, J. Crew, and even Levi jeans, there’s no comparison. Those J. Crew or GAP jeans will withstand the test of all nighters, dates, parties, and classes and always be there when in doubt. My advice? I recommend investing in at least two to three pairs of good jeans.

Tip #3: When in Doubt: Accessorize

Whether it’s a statement necklace, scarves, bracelets, earrings, or a beanie if you can wear it, wear it…but in good taste. Don’t get me wrong I love an arm party just as much as the next girl but don’t cross the line between tasteful and tacky. I tend to not splurge on accessories, save a few special pieces, because I always loose things. My go to stores for cheap, cute accessories are always Charlotte Russe or Forever 21. Accessories are another aspect of fashion than can make it look like you spent hours coordinating a basic outfit. Accessories like a hat or a scarf or bracelets can be a complete lifesaver when you slept through your alarm in the mornings!

ip #4: Embrace The Little Black Dress

Ah, the classics. The LBD has stood the test of time and is a staple in every woman’s wardrobe across the world. For some of us we have a LBD for every occasion, whether it be for a night out with friends, a party, a more formal occasion, professional wear, or even to wear casually. The LBD simplifies the task of putting together an outfit. It can be worn alone, or accessorized. Just throw on a pair of heels, flats, or sandals and voila! You have an instant outfit.

Tip #5: “Give a girl the right shoes and she can conquer the world.”

Yes, Marilyn Monroe had it right, shoes have a lot of a power. This being said, invest wisely. I made the mistake of being lazy every day my first month of college and wearing nothing but flip flops around campus and trust me, I paid for it later. My advice is to invest in a couple of pairs of timeless staple shoes these could be flats, a pair of boat shoes (Sperry’s are a personal favorite of mine), or on days you want to dress your look down a pair of tennis shoes or sneakers and when the weather gets cooler, you can expect to find me wearing my favorite pair of riding boots.

Tip #6: Invest in a Pair of Rain Boots

Let’s face it, you’re a most likely broke college student, and gas prices are constantly changing. This being said, you probably won’t find yourself driving around campus just to go to class, even if it’s raining. That’s why I recommend investing in a pair of rain boots. Besides being functional, rain boots can be worn with virtually any outfit and still look cute. There have been many days where even though I had my umbrella when caught in the rain, I would arrive to class with wet shoes, socks, and feet. It’s rather uncomfortable sitting in class for an hour and a half like that. So to avoid the discomfort, look for a pair of rain boots that you feel you’d be able to love and that will keep you warm and dry. I will definitely be investing in this pair of Hunter boots this fall!

Tip #7: You’re Never Fully Dressed Without A Smile

This is my final (and most important) tip. Though college is a time to reinvent yourself and become the person you’ve dreamed of being your entire life, it is also a very critical time. The choices you make now will affect your future so it’s so important to be true to who you are and to follow your heart and dreams. That being said do what makes you happy and what makes you smile! Don’t let the stress you may experience get you down, always remember to take time to step back and assess the situation and take time to yourself to just breathe and enjoy yourself!

These are my wardrobe essentials for every college girl! I hope you guys enjoyed and can use them! What are your wardrobe essentials? Let me know in the comments below! You can see more of what inspires my wardrobe choices on my Pinterest board.